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So if you’ve stopped blaming the world for the woman who cheated on you or the man who treated you badly, and now realize that one individual doesn’t represent all of humankind, you’re ready to try again.
Similarly, if you understand that marriages break down, have learned from your mistakes, know that you gave it your best and realize that you’re not solely to blame for reality not meeting your expectations, then you’re a step closer to collecting that china set all over again with someone who’s grown as you have.
And if you’re at a place where you understand that your dearly departed would want the best for you, that he or she loved you beyond his or her own happiness and genuinely wanted you to have the world, then you’re ready for a fresh start.
No one forgets the past, but we can all learn from it and use it to reconnect with the world as a wiser person.
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These are all very normal thoughts to have, and so it starts with not being afraid to admit to yourself that you might have hang-ups around your ex and what happened in your past relationships.
It’s much better to have that conversation with yourself and get means to rebuild your confidence and have a good mind-set towards dating is having a clear understanding of what your own boundaries and values are.
Once you start opening your eyes to it, you’ll see there are plenty of people out there.
To find happiness with someone new it’s important you’ve come to terms with the ending of your past relationship.
There are lots of great people out there, whatever your age.
Allow yourself time to come to terms with the end of your relationship.
There’s no timeframe for how long that can take, so don’t be too hard on yourself if you ever feel you should be ‘over it’ already.