Internet dating for christians
I’ve had multiple conversations and have read many blogs and articles about online dating. Online dating gives the users the chance to put their best foot forward and keep the ugly in the background. Online dating has the potential to be used because of a lack of trust in God.I’ve decided to boil all of that information down into this one teeny tiny blog post. Going online requires you to fork over a bunch of personal information (that’s how they make the matches). It can be difficult to know the true beliefs, convictions, and character of the guys you meet. A lack of trust that God is the Creator and hold the hearts of Kings in His hands. God is working in your life and giving you opportunities to grow and become more like Jesus. God has tons of work (the harvest is plentiful but the workers are few) and singles are a great set of people to focus on that Kingdom work.The problem is, you cannot tell the difference at first.If we caution our teenagers, children, and young women to stay away from strangers they meet on line, does it then make sense to turn around and encourage them to do just that—meet strangers online? I have read the news stories of girls going missing after meeting up with men they met online.According to Match.com, 1 in 5 relationships begin online. It could be your worst nightmare or a dream come true.Choosing to date online means navigating a world full of predators, knuckleheads, and potential marriage partners.On the issue of online dating, or even dating in general, the Bible is void of examples.
Then, I have friends who met their husbands online. Still, men prey on seemingly desperate women in order to get what they want. Go with a group if you are more comfortable with that.I am not feeling comfortable with what I am doing or what I am to discern as maybe a red flag other than the obvious. Maybe I was supposed to only get to know one man at a time, make a decision and move on to the next?I think my lack of experience has gotten my focus off of the real issues, but actually what is the real issue other than a man who loves Jesus with all his heart. HE SAID: Online dating has become a serious mainstay as a viable alternative to finding a mate at any age.I’ve never used online dating in my past, and personally have no current plans of using it in the future. If you are fully striving to trust in Him, rely on Him, and rest in Him, then I think the answer to your online dating question will become quite clear.I’ve talked through, thought through, and prayed through this topic and I don’t believe it’s the path for me. If you’ve ever thought about using online dating, I highly encourage you to think, pray, and weigh the pros and cons before ever getting online. I’ve heard several people (who’ve used online dating) say that online dating requires a lot of time. Just remember that God is bigger, mightier, and more amazing than you could ever imagine.